The Spring Wedding Invitation Glossary: A Gent's Guide to What to Wear

Black Tie. While White Tie is the most formal (a tuxedo, with tails), that is pretty straight forward, and not all that common, so we’re going to jump right into Black Tie. This is almost always an evening affair. And this dress code is generally specified on the invitation, so this one is actually pretty easy to interpret. This is your chance to break out your tuxedo (or get one, they’re worth the investment, since they’re such a classic). This all wool tuxedo from Hugo Boss will surely get you on the best dressed guest list. The narrower lapels on the jacket and narrower legs on the trouser give it a modern look, with a coordinating fit that is trim and updated, but still suitable for most gents. Of course, you can opt for a formal black suit and tie, as well, if it’s a more modern or younger crowd.

Formal. If it’s an evening affair noting that dinner will be served, and nothing is specified for your attire, this is probably what they mean, as it’s the most common. . There may be an outdoor component to this, like the ceremony or cocktail hour, but it’s generally still in a more formal setting like, a country club or hotel. “Black tie optional” will generally fall in to this category, as well, which of course, means just that – feel free to wear your tux. However, you don’t have to, and if it’s just formal, we suggest sticking with a conservative dark suit, crisp shirt and dressy (more conservative) tie. Since this is still a festive occasion, you can play with some seasonal color in your tie or pocket square. This investment-worthy classic fit suit from Hickey Freeman is just the kind of suit we mean. This dark navy timeless 2-button can be quite formal with a white shirt, dark tie and black shoes; while fashionably appropriate with a striped shirt, tie, and brown or tan shoes.

Semi-formal, Dressy, Festive. You should stick with a suit to cover all of these. These types of weddings are usually evening cocktails/passed hors d’oeuvres, champagne/dessert, a brunch, high tea, or lunch. And this will generally cover those “dressier” outdoor affairs, too. You can definitely have some fun with your attire, especially in the warmer weather. Play with color in your shirt or add an updated patterned tie, like a floral or check. Of course, the classic black, whites, and blues are absolutely appropriate – and erring on the side of caution won’t make your look any less appropriate. Just know you have options. This classic-fitting Samuelsohn suit is one of our favorites. The subtle navy plaid is great for any semi-formal event, and can pair with a pattern shirt and colorful tie for a festive wedding look that is appropriately out of the ordinary.

Dressy Casual, Casual, Beachy. This is usually reserved for day events, often outdoors, and can even be a destination locale. You can do a great pair of linen or cotton pants with a button-down shirt, perhaps a tie, and sport coat. In any setting, this is not the time to break out your Hawaiian shirt or shorts, unless your hosts ask you to. Remember, they are still paying good money for this affair. This J.Crew sport coat is done in their contemporary fit in an all cotton grey and white stripe that would work perfectly. You can wear it with white flat front cotton twill pants and a blue chambray button up shirt for a dressier casual wedding. And you can make it truly beach casual with a knit polo or linen t-shirt.